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I have noticed that young people are more and more involved in texting and other social media activities at the expense of real life engagement with people that are there at the time. That is a terrible side effect where we lose contact with people trying to keep in contact with others.
Look at the cell phone plans today. They heavily support texting heavily and, with most teen users, the texts outnumber the calls. Most kids are even texting in the wee hours of the morning, when they wouldn't be able to call.
The social awkwardness of being in person, having to make eye contact, and manage our nervous twitches, is eradicated by the Internet and it's ability to de-personalize interactions made with other people. If we can pretend that whoever we're talking to or seeing is just an image or words on a screen, it makes it simpler to say what we want and ignore social boundaries.
Kids would rather talk via the Internet, than in person. This is true, as you can tell by how many social websites there are out there. This does not only apply just to the Internet, but to texting as well. I've seen kids who are right next to each other text, instead of talking to each other face to face.
With the advancement of the Internet and all the social media today children are losing the skill of being able to communicate with each other. They now can "hide" behind these forms of media and never truly have to face a person. Some of the stuff these children would say in the social media they would never say in person to someone.
Indeed, the advent of the Internet and social media has caused the need for "face time" to diminish greatly in all professions and age groups. Children are at the forefront of this, as they have grown up with this technology and no longer need to plan slumber parties ahead of time, or pick out invitation cards for a birthday, when now they can just create an event on Facebook.
When I was a kid, it was bicycles and skateboards. Now, it's Facebook, Twitter, and other social media. Do you ever really see a kid without a cell phone stuck to their ear, or without their fingers dancing over the keyboards, texting? Hell no! Kids today are so lazy. Even the games they play, such as XBOX and PS3, are integrated with social media, which substitutes for face-to-face communication.
The internet and social media get a lot of the blame for children and teens not engaging in face-to-face dialogue as much as in the past. However, these are communication channels that actually enable young users to interact with each other in real time and with fewer restrictions than previous technology permitted. If children and teens are spending less time together in person, it is up to the parents to ensure their children spend time away from electronic devices engaged in social interactions.
Most kids do meet in person with their friends to hang out and do things. If anything, I believe the Internet and social media bring kids together from far away places that otherwise would not have had the opportunity to meet.
Young people are able to stay connected because of the Internet and social media. Since many of them move frequently with their parents, the Internet has allowed them to stay connected with their friends so they may still arrange to visit and socialize.
I disagree that social media and the Internet have caused teens to have less face-to-face contact, because social media now gives people more ways to connect and find out about events. I have teenagers, and they often use social media such as Facebook on their cell phones as a way to find out about events that are happening in our area. I think social media is a great way to stay connected.